I have been married to my husband for 12 years, but he has never
been able to satisfy me sexually. I read an article somewhere that
this happens because foreplay is not enough. We spend enough time
on foreplay but when he kisses me, it tickles. I don't get aroused,
no orgasms, I just feel like laughing because of the ticklish
feelings. Can you make any sense out of this?
RT, Female, 35 years, from NY(USA)
There is a condition called ANORGASMIA in which the person feels no
orgasm from ANY kind of stimulation. A sex counselor or therapist
can confirm if this is indeed your case. The good news is that this
is easily treated with therapy. Therapy will involve teaching the
client to focus on other physical sensations and emotions BESIDES
If you have experienced orgasms through masturbation or some other
techniques then you could communicate to your partner about what
kind of touches you like; and try to recognize pleasurable
sensations during foreplay.