Men get aroused visually, but women are aroused more by TOUCH.
In fact without whole-body caressing, many women have
difficulty becoming sexually aroused, lubricating vaginally and
getting an orgasm.
Even before he kisses a woman, it's the way he caresses her
that separates a skilled lover from mediocre ones.
The world's best lovers use touch to excite their partners long
before entering the bedroom. Indeed, it usually gets HER dragging
him indoors. :)
Unfortunately, most men don't know how to touch a woman.
But the good news : it's VERY easy to learn.
At our seminars we have participants caress a life-size female doll
as they learn the technique. We notice that some of them take
longer to learn the technique because of their social conditioning;
the stuff in their heads telling them that real men will have
nothing to do with "touch-feely crap".
So, if you're willing to drop your guard and keep an open mind,
I'll show you 3 ways to caress a woman that will make her more
aroused and responsive.
THE TOUCH OF SATIN
Ever notice how smoothly satin glides over a surface, barely
brushing against it? Create the same effect on her body by
touching her very, very gently and slowly. With the very tip of
your middle-finger, trace the contours of her body with gentle,
nearly imperceptible strokes. Trace the side of her jaw, down her
cheekbone, the outline of her neck, shoulders, arms, legs, feet,
softly stroke the small of her back, her buttocks, her sides, the
backs of her knees...everywhere. You can also try this with multiple
fingertips or the flat of your hand.
Run your fingertips over her body in wavy, undulating strokes (that
never travel a straight line). Women find this very erotic because
of the anticipation caused by the curvy path. You can use this to
caress any part of her body.
MASSAGE STYLE TOUCH
Using the heel of your palm, use long, gliding strokes all over her
body. It will melt tension away and relax her, which will make her
sexually more responsive. To reduce friction in your strokes use a
little massage lotion or oil.
>> In conclusion :
WOMEN REMEMBER HOW YOU TOUCHED THEM.
The skin is a woman's largest sex organ with millions of nerve
endings. Take full advantage of that. Linger all over her body,
long before you move to her more intimate areas.
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Until next time.
||A step-by-step guide to whole-body lovemaking
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